From Aunt Barbara & Jere

Tom - it's been a few years since we each celebrated our 40th but we're not so old that we can't conjure up a fleeting memory of the occasion and the decade that followed. It is, in some ways, a reality check - life is moving quickly and we pause to reflect on what has been and what may be. It's all good - all the blessings in your life - family, health, career, someone to share your life with - all the things that contribute to a "full life". Yes, there has been great tragedy - life at its worst - but with these events come personal growth without which we cannot survive. We like being philosophical about life especially on special birthdays such as this - having said that Tom, we wish you continued good fortune as you travel through your 40's and beyond - know you have enriched our lives and we count ourselves lucky to be "your family". It is so easy and natural to think of Ray, Robert & Anna on an occasion such as this - no doubt, they are traveling with you through life and are guiding you, each in their own way, but all loving you in the same way from the depths of their souls. We hope you have a wonderful celebration and take some time to reflect on all that you have accomplished and all that is yet to do. We are proud of you and wish the next 40 years to be amazing.