
the baby of the family...

just one of the boys...
Tom,
I have only a few memories of BT (Before Tom). Going grocery shopping @ Darrenkamp's on Union Street...
Sitting on the older neighbor couple's laps while there was a big fire somewhere in the city, walking to mom's hairdresser, mom spraying her ozone depleting "Breck" hairspray and that other older neighborhood guy calling me "Toe head." Truth be told the dude was probably "only" in his late 30's!
The Tom era begins with my clear recollection of our Saturday morning cartoon ritual of me lifting you out of your crib so we could go downstairs at watch TV. You were sporting your "onesie" outfit w/ the slippery feet. Ah, the slippery feet pajamas- great for sliding safe into home down the all-wood hallway! Well, we could talk all day about growing up together in the same room, Viva, wiffle, Intellivision, Nerf football, Nerf basketball (Doobie Bros.), going to work w/ dad, Darth Vader poster, riding in the "way back" while mom delivered Avon (while I was busy up front shifting) in the '68 bug, Hanger 18, 45's, world championship tennis, Mr. Urban, Pensupreme, ghost in the graveyard and the green Devil Dog.
We've always been tight about things like music, sports and movies but no doubt we got tighter the older we got and the more mature we got. It's typical brotherhood to have some rough times but I think back that even when we were young I still came to your St. Leo games, home and away, to cheer you on. And then there we were playing softball together many years later and ready to kick that big guy's ass when he was slinging his insults. All those pre-email years of keeping in contact when you were @ Kutztown and then NYC. How did we do it??? Sure has been a pleasure "touching base" all 15 years you were not in Lancaster. I guess with dad gone we had even more reason to stay close and take care of each other.
Great to have you close by again. So great that I went through this whole email without one mention of rubber snakes and Witchiepoo. That would have been cruel.
Happy 40th Birthday Tom!
Love,
Chris
I really wanted to send some of our classic pics from Kutztown days, but lucky for all of us, I couldnt find them. ** (Hard to believe that was TWENTY years ago!). Anyway, welcome to middle age. Hope you have a great birthday and many more rockin' years to come!
All our best,
Gregg and Liz
Carol and I watched Tom grow up from a little guy racing around Devonshire to big guy racing around the US.
One of our fondest memories was watching Tom and Rob compete in miniature golf. Their favorite "course" was the old Zinn's. Many a summer afternoon was spent having great fun with Tom and Rob. We never were able to give Rob a brother. But we, our whole little family, feel in love with a little guy on Devonshire. Rob, Carol and me were blessed with a brother, and second son, by choice. We are so proud of both Rob and Tom.
Hard to believe they are turning 40!!
Happy Birthday Tommy B,
Tom and Carol Mayer
Dear Tomb,
Can you fit 40 candles on a Tastykake? I hope you get everything you wish for this year (lifetime supply of Bugles?)
I am so glad to have known you these past 14 years (and you look exactly the same, even through all the hair color changes and facial hair growth).
Have an amazing day!
Lots of love and buh-bye,
Alison
Tom,
It is June 6, and technology has let me down -- I had a video message for you but there's some international issue between Sony and Mac (I'm certain that it involves the Transformers somehow and is far more significant than any N. Korean nuclear stuff, but involves memory sticks and camcorders and leopard, and...). So, I am reduced to old skool greetings instead.
In any event, here we go (this is not a transcription of the video script --that was much better and concerned why Priest was so much cooler than Maiden cause Halford's gay and aircraft pilot Dickhead ain't, but whatever): When I turned 40 I gave specific instructions to any fool that cared a lick about me to:
Not make a 'big deal' about "it". Now, I did this for fear that the gigantessness of "it" might overwhelm the casual follower (of my life) causing that person to rethink their existence and do something nuts like get involved in community action in Chicago and eventually ascend to the presidency of the United States.
Turns out, that "it" really didn't matter so much (to anyone), 'cause those people who I am fearfully joined to are, and continue to be all older (haveyou SEEN Ian lately?) than me (except for the 'Baker', who LOOKS older anyway).
So, I didn't allow "it" to be a big deal.
But, that doesn't mean "it" should not a big deal for you.
I don't really have anything to say to you except that 40 is the new 60...Oh, wait, that's more like 60 is the new 40 -- whatever.
Have a great time on your day. After that, renounce the playing of golf --'cause it's NOT A REAL SPORT no matter WHAT Jim Nance says, and Tiger is onhis boat with a Swedish wife laughing at all of us (?!).
Best from all of us -- HAIL to the Redskins,
Lyle
Wishing the coolest of Happy Birthdays to one of the coolest kids I know!
Love,
Xilonen